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Love and relationships are something that is born from time, patience, and hard work when you have one worth fighting for. While the wait is what matters, it also can be the hardest time for those of you who have, “never been kissed”. Day dreaming never ceases to be endless, and the hopes of ever meeting “the one” seem to become smaller and smaller. Love is far from a logical thing. Completely the right side of your brain. There is a component that every small relationship needs, fire. It does seem if the spark is never there, it leads to a friendship.

Don’t get me wrong, single can be wonderful. But there is never that security that would come from being in a relationship. That person you can turn to when you don’t want to turn to anyone else. The ability to build up, instead of always starting from scratch. It is being able to have someone to rely on to be there at your worst. Someone to appreciate you at your best, but most of all having someone who wants to be there for you.

I don’t know if it is the support that would come from being in a relationship, or allowing the walls to finally be let down for someone, that intrigues me. It sucks at times, always having to make a good impression. Thinking every guy could be it. The person I can settle down with and have a long deep pleasurable relationship with. It’s hard not to try and see myself with every guy I am remotely interested in. Thinking ahead to what our lives would be like if we were to fall in love.

I got over always asking the question of, when, and the insecurities of doubt, but now I am more along the lines of, who. I am still trying to let go of trying so hard to make it happen, and rather let myself be open to whoever wants to come in. Focusing on myself to be interesting, independent, and stable. I want to have a satisfying relationship, for both myself, and whoever my partner may be.

The waiting has made me more patient and less consumed of the idea of when it is going to happen. I believe when the time is right it will happen. Until than, doing me is the only thing I can do. Should do. As for my biological perspective on relationships, it is a little bit more difficult at times. Especially when I get with someone who does it well. But it is not just the sex that I want, but that person to open up and be sexual with. Instead of having to pick and choose who to text, just to know I want to text him. I want to share feelings with someone, have it be ours, instead of just mine. While it is still fun to be with other people, there is always the nagging thought that I want it to be with just one special person. Someone I can grow with. So I am wondering, when will it be right?