Over-Fu*ked

The thing about trends is they come on so gradually, that when you actually realize what is happening you feel some what hood winked. Like waking up so unfortunately early in the morning, that you must squint your eyes to keep from being blinded by light. I am being blinded by the reality that our culture is over-sexualized. I must squint to remember how the way used to be. When music was about heart-break, or having your first kiss, maybe even keeping a "dirty little secret". Fast forwarding to now where every other word is about exploiting a woman, and than drinking to the conquered quest. Being a single girl in this society, I'm beginning to realize how backwards building an intimate relationship has become. The sex, on average, comes before the relationship does. UMM? Did, or did it not, used to be that sex was something that was anticipated to happen well after the relationship had begun? It is sad to know that the words: slut, whore, bitch, douche, douche bag, cunt and dick are used to describe each other. They are becoming so common they are basically integrated into our language and conversations on the daily. Not to mention that guys are applauded for, "getting some ass". Yeah, well that ass, isn't a donkey, your talking about another human being. What happened to relationships being based, not off of how good the sex is, but rather the feelings of admiration for the person. To me, this over sexualized society is bringing on a new era of prejudice. Men and women are to blame, media, and other industries as well. However, only you can stop yourself from being over-fuc*ked.