Sex is such a great topic to talk about because both sexes can talk about it, nearly every person has done it, and its one of the most largely debated subjects.
It has to obliged by rules, and standards. It must also be subjected to perjury in one way or another. Everyone has their own perception on it, what they consider to be good or bad. In my opinion, we have turned something that two people can truly use for expressing emotion and tagged too many if's and's or but's on to it. Too many categories, it has been divided up too. What happened to the freedom of making love?. It's something amazing that, when you have sex, both people are feeling the closest they may ever get to knowing how someone else feels.
Sure, good sex between a man and a woman in holy matrimony exists somewhere.. I just haven't heard or seen of it. I think when raising children it is important to model what good sexual behavior deviates from. Like most animals, we learn our behavior by modeling the people that raise us. Since sex is a topic that may not be talked about in a lot of households, it still carries weight that should be modeled in a fashion of how to have a healthy sex life.
And, showing your kids porn is not the way to demonstrate healthy, respectful sex, P.S. Just that so many people I know, don't have a good ideology about sex. Me included. We are just a bunch of horny teenagers that are budding into adulthood. Sex is part of that adulthood, yet no one prepares you for the pain and the complications that having sex can bring. Obviously we all are pretty exposed to, 'if your gonna have sex, be safe' slogans. But what about the relationship part to being in a sexual relationship?
Things such as, how long should you wait to sleep with someone? Or, qualities someone should have before you sleep with them. I think these are important issues that are not addressed merely enough.
There are just so many aspects of sex. Just how it is applicable to every person. Its something that means different things to different people. Because its a part of your life that you have to figure out completely on your own.
Or maybe thats just me.
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